Why Traveling Solo is More Attractive Than Ever

For those of us who’ve endured nagging spouses and interminable delays caused by our co-vacationers on holiday, the thought of a solo trip can seem more than a little alluring. No annoying trips to every little theme park in the neighborhood to suffer through, and no stopping at every obscure souvenir shop to pick up something for Aunt Matilda who they haven’t met in six years.

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The only problem with solo trips of yore was the unimaginative packaging — a tour group consisted of a large bunch of mismatched singles thrown together into one big matchmaking orgy. These travel stereotypes are definitely beginning to shift though, as those who choose to travel solo become not just greater in number, but also more discerning about their choice of vacations spots and activities. According to Travel and Leisure magazine, at least one in every 10 travelers is holidaying solo, and it’s this substantial chunk of the population that tour operators and travel agencies are falling over themselves to target.

Options for the solo travelers now range from small and intimate off-the-beaten-path adventures to Nepal organized by Intrepid Travel to tailor made customized luxury travel packages by Manhattan based Absolute Travel which is introducing a pairing service for those who’d like some company with like minded individuals along the way. Spas and resorts are jumping on the solo travel bandwagon in a big way. Almost every niche out there is being catered to as single women and people with specific interests like walking join tour groups that are customized to suit their special tastes. Gone is the ubiquitous trip to Hawaii — today’s singles are living it up in Antarctica.

One drawback still remains though – the supplemental room charges levied on single travelers still exist, although those who book early may be able to avoid these.

  1. Or … my preference is simply to travel independently. For me, most of the fun of traveling solo is being 100% in charge of what I do and when, but that disappears if I’m on a group tour. Usually you’ll meet other solo travelers and can decide if you want to spend time with other people, or even take an occasional locally-organized day tour or something. But maybe I’m just too headstrong and selfish to be in a group :-)

  2. More than selfish, I think it’s about freedom. I love to travel solo and do so whenever I can. It means I don’t have to negotiate the next leg of the journey or sleep when I’d rather be hiking. I can simply change my mind on a whim, and change directions. Solo travel also makes me more self-reliant and confident about the world. If I can sort out life on the road, I can usually do so even better back home.

  3. If you don’t have the perfect travel companion, solo is the way to go. You’ll meet SO many more people along the way. I agree with Scribetrotter, too, that you become more self-reliant and confident but not only about the world, about yourself also.

  4. Most men are accustomed to traveling solo–whether for business or pleasure. Single women are playing catch up. I strongly agree with the freedom aspect of solo travel. Nobody’s schedule but my own! That’s my motto. So I guess I’m a touch selfish too. I always me a lot of interesting people during leisure travel. Of course, the downside is the single supplement charge and the occasional “supper alone” surrounded by couples. But, that’s never stopped me from going “solo” if I have the time, money and inclination. Life’s too short to sit around and wait. I say, “Go!”

  5. I agree with everyone that it’s great to travel solo. I’m okay dining alone, and I enjoy exploring museums without someone tagging along. But I seldom can get into the mindset of taking off a week from work to vacation solo. So I sign up for something I’ll enjoy. If I want to be active, I’ll join a biking group or ride horses at a ranch. If I want to travel abroad, I’ll go to a language school or to cooking classes. In other words, I do something that guarantees I’ll be with people. Then I usually arrive early or stay late to explore the area by myself for a few days.

  6. I’m just worried about the popularity of independent travel. I travel to get away from people; sometimes to get away from the sheer numbers of people that can live in one place. The last thing I want to see is backpackers crawling around what I thought was a solitary nook of the world.

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